Friday, April 29, 2016

Psychological tricks


If you wish to see the frustration tolerance level of a person then ask him intentionally an innocuous doubt. Something which even a kid can answer. For example: Ask him to explain how facebook works? or what is thirteen multiply by seven?

If you wish to test anger of a person then ask the same doubt again and again.

If you wish to find the politeness quotient in a person then notice words like kindly, please and sorry in his conversation.

To find what a person thinks about a certain subject, it is better to ask him in non-judgemental tone about his opinion on the issue.

To check out his commitment level, ask him to work overtime or skip food for work.

To check out his limits, ask him for some big request. For example, a manager may ask him to work on weekends straight.

To see his individuality, ask him to recall a decision in life where not many people agreed with him or when many people opposed him.

To read the mind, look at his face with intensity. Look at the eyes and facial nerves.

To test the positive tone of person's conversation, say something negative about the scheme of things. For example, raise your doubts about team's success or say something wrong about other colleagues.

To test the assertiveness of the person, do something which may hamper his productive activity. For example, sing in a loud voice when he is working or busy.

To test honesty of the person, ask him about his weak points or dig deeper into his poor performance area. For example, ask him to tell his 3 weaknesses.

To test his vengeful instinct, hit his ego hard. For example, say something bad about whatever he cares. For example, tell a girl you look ugly or you have dark spots below eyes.

To test his sensitivity, check how he treats people who are below him in rank or status.

To test his love, ignore him.

To test his altruism, give him 1000 Rs. and go together to some holy shrine where he can have an encounter with a beggar.

To test his reliability, give him some work and with words of hope, expectation and faith in his abilities.

To test his arrogance, shout on him

To test his flamboyance, see if he can wear a t-shirt inside out in the public market and can he stand with confidence and style even when he is the odd one out in the crowd. Can he take a hit at his public image without getting too conscious about it?

To test his adventure spirit, track his risk taking abilities in various life situations.

To test his decision-making skills, go shopping with him.

To test his show-off skills, analyze his dressing sense. Here his date of birth can also come handy. Generally, I find Leo's as image conscious.

To test his non-violence spirit, slap him.


2 comments:

  1. Good one :-D Hoping someone wil use al of this on you.. :-P

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